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Registration and Memberships

Anonymity - is any of my personal contact details revealed to other members?

Our system does not reveal your personal contact details or email address to other members. Members will only know you by your username and photo and whatever info you decide to include in your profile.

During the sign up process you're not asked for your real name or physical home address, so this info is not part of the info in our member database. The only time any of your personal info may be required is when making a payment for services, but this info is a totally different and separate process and is not included as a part of the site's member database info.

Even providing your actual birthdate when signing up is never revealed to other members, this is only used by our system for calculating your age in your profile.

It's at your discretion and totally left up to you to decide if you want to give a member any personal info about yourself, such as your real name or email address, phone number, etc. We don't get involved or interfere, or have any control over, in what two people decide to share privately among themselves.

I did not receive the confirmation email to activate my account after signing up?

Many E-mail services and Internet Service Providers (ISP) such as AOL, Yahoo, and Hotmail have SPAM filters to try and prevent mass amounts of spam and junk e-mail from be delivered. Unfortunately, these filters will often delay or entirely block e-mails that you wish to receive unless you add the sender to your email contact list or address book.

If you don't receive the confirmation email within 15 minutes, try checking through your spam, junk or bulk email boxes in your online web based email account. If you still can't find it then try adding our domain to your Contact List as this will often force your email provider to release the email to one of your boxes.

Add our domain like this ... @nzadultfun.co.nz or add our email address admin@nzadultfun.co.nz

You can also have your confirmation email resent.
Try logging with the username and password that you used when you signed up. Since your account hasn't be actived yet you will be taken to a page telling you need to activate your account using the link provided in the confirmation email that was sent to your email address. You'll also be provided with a link to resend the email. Before resending be sure you have added us to your contact list to ensure you receive the confirmation email.

Also make sure your online inbox isn't full, this can also be a common reason for not receiving emails.

How much does it cost for a premium membership?

We have more free features than most other adult websites, in fact, just about everything is free, though there are a few special features that GOLD members receive to make it more than worth their while to upgrade. CLICK HERE to compare our affordable membership options.

How do I cancel my membership and remove my profile?

Go to your home page, and in the "My Account" menu on the left, click "My Settings". Scroll to the bottom of the page to the "Cancel your account" section.


My Profile

How do I edit or correct information in my profile?

Click on the "My Profile" link in your My Account menu. You will then see edit links for editing different sections of your profile. Simply correct or edit your information and click the save button.

I forgot my username or my password, what should I do?

If you registered with a legitimate and active email address your username can be sent to you along with a link if you also need to re-set your password. For security reasons we don't send passwords, only a link that allows you to re-set (change) it. Just click the "Lost Password" link located at the top of the page and enter the email address you're registered with and an email will be sent with instructions and a link to reset your password.

If you don't receive the email within 15 minutes, try checking through your spam, junk or bulk email boxes in your online web based email account. If you still can't find it try adding our site to your email account's contact list.

Add our domain like this ... @nzadultfun.co.nz or add our email address admin@nzadultfun.co.nz

If you have changed email addresses and therefore unable to receive the auto-email reply, contact us.

IMPORTANT: in the message field include the original email address that you used to register with along with your full date of birth. If the info matches with what appears in our database we will assist you in re-setting your account login.

Also make sure your online inbox isn't full, this can also be a common reason for not receiving emails.

How do I change my account info, such as username, password or email?

You cannot change your username because this is a piece of critical information that uniquely identifies you on our system and throughout the site. Your username gets cached and embedded in the system's blog posts, comments, photos, messages, basically everywhere, making it extremely difficult to change.

You however can change your password or email address at anytime by clicking on the "My Settings" in your "My Account" menu.

I'm unable to save searches and/or I get a warning message?

* First make sure you disable any popup blocker programs you may have installed while using our site.

The most likely culprit is you're using Interent Explorer and you have your security settings set too strict.

1. Select 'Tools' then 'Internet Options' from the top of your browser window
2. Select the 'Security' tab
3. Select the 'Internet' icon (Globe of Earth) and click the 'Custom Level' button
4. Select 'Medium' security from the 'Reset custom settings' box

Or if you don't want to change your security settings you can add us to your trusted site list.

1. Select 'Tools' - 'Internet Options' from the top of your browser window
2. Select the 'Security' tab
3. Select the 'Trusted sites' icon (Check Mark) and click the 'Sites' button
4. Enter www.mysite.com and click the 'Add' button
5. Un-check the box that says 'Require server verification ...'

How can I increase my odds of being noticed on the site?

First and foremost, be sure to post some photos in your profile. Research shows that profiles with photos are 10 times more likely to receive responses.

Create and write blogs and post comments in other member's blogs - this will increase your profile awareness on the site. The more involved you are on the site, the more likely you will be noticed!

Create an interesting profile, fill in as many fields as you can. For more tips and info on creating and writing a profile that will bring responses.

The more involved you are on the site, the more likely you will be noticed!

Take action!
Don't be afraid to make the first move, send some messages to members.

Yes ladies, this means you as well, it's very competitive out there these days, don't let all the potential good ones get away. Maybe some of the men you find interesting or appealing are simply passing over your profile because they feel they don't measure up to what you're seeking and would be thrilled to hear from you.

You can't just create a profile with a couple photos then expect to sit back and wait for responses to come rolling in. To be successful at meeting people or finding love you have to mingle a bit and make others aware you are alive and interested.

We make contacting members easy, if you're not sure what to say, try sending one of our pre-formatted "Flirt" messages.

We can only supply members with the tools to meet people, it's up to you to make use of the tools.


Connecting with Members

Under "Connect" menu, what's the difference between "Friends" and "Bookmarks"?

The difference between friends and bookmark is ... people in your friends list is a buddy list of people you are actual friends with or connected with. Whereas bookmarks are like bookmarking or adding a member's profile to a favorites list. Say for example you're browsing profiles and you come across a member you might be interested in, you can add them to your bookmarks list for future reference and continue browsing. Then later on you can browse through your bookmarks to see who you may want to try actually contacting.

How can I block, or un-block a member?

Go to the member's profile page and at the bottom of their "Connect" menu you'll notice a block link.

Clicking this link blocks this member from being able to contact you or send you messages. Blocked members are added to a blocked list located in your "My Account" menu under "Connections".

Removing a member from your block list:
Once you block a member, just click the member's link in your blocked list and it will take you their profile page and at the bottom of their "Connect" menu you will notice that the "Block" link now says "Unblock", simply click the "Unblock" link to remove the member from your blocked list.


My Photos

How many photos can I upload to my profile?

You are allowed up to 50.

What are the photo uploading requirements?

Maximum allowed file size is 150kb per photo. Photos should be in JPEG (.jpg) format with a maximum width of about 600 pixels.


Blogs

What are Blogs?

Blogs are basically a personal journal that are typically used for publishing news and articles or for expressing your opinions or observations about a subject, which could be political statements or views, providing tutorials, or simply telling the world all about your favorite horse breed or equine event, or even your thoughts about a movie you recently seen.

Other members can read your blogs and join in by commenting or expressing their own opinions about the topic, often spawning lively discussions. In a way blogs can be considered like each member having their own personal mini forum where they are in total control of the topics, including moderating by removing inappropriate comments.

Don't ignore this powerful tool - writing blogs expands on your profile and can drastically increase the odds of you being noticed on the site, and is a great way to make new friends and for people to get to know you better. Blogs allows you to write articles about any topic or interest you wish, and it can be as short or lengthy as you want. You can write an article expressing your opinions about a topic, describing your passions or interests, or it could be used to get feedback what others think about an issue or topic.

Post comments in other member's blogs - this will also increase your profile awareness on the site. The more involved you are on the site, the more you will be noticed! People are naturally drawn to those that appear popular, informative and helpful.

How do I create a blog?

Click on the "Blog Manager" link in your "My Account" menu. Your blog manager provides some basic instructions on how to create and manage blogs.


Technical Issues

How do I know if I'm viewing the site's most recent and updated Information?

If you visit our site frequently, your web browser stores elements of web pages in a cache so that they do not have to be downloaded again each time you visit, making your browsing faster. Most textual content on the site is dynamically refreshed server-side, however some things such as design and style elements and certain images or photos may be stored in your system's cache and you may be actually viewing and older cached version.

Some browsers such as Firefox will often auto update the cache better than other browsers (such as IE). You should occasionally consider doing a hard refresh, which loads the actual page as it is on the site and refreshes many of the cache elements, you should also periodically completely clear your browser cache, every site you visit stores cache elements causing your browser's temporary Internet folder to get huge over time which will eventually slow down your browser.

How to do a hard refresh - with your browser open to our site, hold down the Ctrl key while pressing F5 on your keyboard, or alternately you can also hold down the Ctrl key while pressing your browser's "Refresh" button. Both methods will work on all browsers.

Times on the site don't appear to match my local time?

If you post a comment or blog and notice the time it was posted is way different from your local time, you need to go to your "Settings" and select the right GMT time zone for your location. The system can usually auto detect your time zone by clicking the "auto detect" link provided. You can also double check to see which GMT is the correct one for your location by clicking the "View GMT Time Zones" link in the left column.

My age appeared to change a day sooner or later than it should have?

If you noticed that your age appeared to change a day sooner or later than it should have, you need to go to your "Settings" and select the right GMT time zone for your location. The system can usually auto detect your time zone by clicking the "auto detect" link provided. You can also double check to see which GMT is the correct one for your location by clicking the "View GMT Time Zones" link in the left column.

Which is the best browser to use for this site?

Although we make every effort to make our site compatible with Microsoft's IE 6/7/8, Mozilla's Firefox is by far the most web standards compliant browser available and has become the main browser used by most top web developers and designers for testing to ensure optimum web compliance.

If you are experiencing any issues using our site, or if your browser just isn't performing as well as you feel it should be, we highly recommend you try Firefox, it's 100% free and the fastest growing browser being used today.

The Firefox browser makes surfing the web faster and safer.
  • SpellCheck
    Fill out profile info, leave blog comments, send messages without worrying about typos and misspellings.
  • Tabbed Browsing
    Save time by viewing more than one page in a window.
  • Session Restore
    If your browser unexpectedly closes, Firefox instantly brings back your site pages, including any text you entered.
  • Pop-up Blocking
    Block annoying pop-up ads.
  • Better Security
    Helps to keep computers a little safer from malicious malware and spyware.



You can also try using the Google Chrome web browser which is gaining in popularity.

I can't login in, what should I do?

1. Your username and password are case-sensitive, please make sure you input them correctly.

2. If you are unsure or forgot your username or password just click the "Lost Password" link located at the top of the page and enter the email address you're registered with and an email will be sent that contains instructions and a link to reset you password.

For security reasons we don't send passwords, only your username and a link if you want to re-set (change) your password.

If you have changed email addresses and therefore unable to receive the auto-email reply, contact us.
IMPORTANT: in the message field include the original email address that you used to register with along with your full date of birth. If the info matches with what appears in our database we will assist you in re-setting your account login.

3. Your browser security settings could be set too high. You have to allow the site to use cookies, otherwise it will not work. Please make sure you have cookies enabled in your browser. To enable cookies, follow the instructions provided in the next section.

4. Also check to be sure that your computer is free of any viruses, spyware or malware that could be corrupting or highjacking your browser.

5. If you're using IE, try installing either the FireFox or Google Chrome web browser and see if you can login. If you can then there's something wrong with your IE browser.


6. If you still can't login feel free to contact us and we will check the status of your account to make sure it's activated and working properly.

How to enable cookies?

We have provided instructions on how to enable cookies for the most popular browsers. If you choose to use a different browser you'll need to read your browser's help on how to enable cookies. The process is similar on most browsers and the following instructions provided should still give you a general idea.

For step by step graphical instructions choose your browser.

Internet Explorer      Firefox      Google Chrome

If you're using Internet Explorer (versions 6, 7 or 8) and still have problems after enabling cookies you may also need to optimize your browser.
Instructions To Optimize Internet Explorer


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